We are Tom and Vicki Dau
…and we were married in 1987. After a few years, we felt close but we had the nagging feeling something wasn’t right: why did it take so much effort to make our marriage work?
Why does Vicki get a creepy crawly feeling when he tries to show physical affection?
Why can her temper flare so quickly?
And why didn’t Tom “just know” what she needed?
We tried the marital advice of other “experts” but it didn’t seem to work like they promised.
We read books about intimacy, but it seemed harder and more complicated than what they said.
Nobody talked openly about what goes on “behind the bedroom door” and we certainly didn’t consider trendy magazines as a resource.
We didn’t know what we didn’t know...
but we knew something wasn’t right.
17 years into our marriage,
Vicki’s repressed sexual abuse memories started surfacing.
Now things started making sense.
We figured out we couldn’t just take the standard marital/self-development advice. We needed to work at the wedge in our relationship through the lens of a sexual abuse survivor.
And that’s when we started making real progress.
We figured out basic things that we needed to do that would get the fastest shifts and create the most ease, enjoyment and intimacy in our relationship.
If you or your spouse has experienced past trauma,
we are uniquely qualified to help you to figure out what is needed in your marriage to
break free from the past!
Fully trained and certified through EFT Universe in Emotional Freedom Technique or Tapping, I help my clients efficiently and effectively neutralize their body’s emotional response to stress so they can stay calm, think clearly, and stop or even avoid panic attacks. Tapping is a clinically proven mind-body tool that calms the body’s fight or flight response to stress by gently tapping on pressure points close to the skin.
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