Make Your Marriage


Do you wish your relationship was deeper and more intimate but don’t know how to get it there?

You are in the right place!  We show husbands and wives struggling with frustration, confusion and isolation how to break free from the past so they can reconnect and bond with each other.

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Make Your Marriage


We show Husbands and Wives struggling with frustration, confusion and isolation how to break free from the past and feel seen, heard and understood, and to reconnect and bond with each other.

We are TeamDau

Let us introduce ourselves.

We are Tom and Vicki Dau and we were married in 1987.  After a few years of being married, we were close but we had the subtle nagging feeling something wasn’t quite right.  We tried the marital advice of other “experts” but it didn’t seem to work like they promised.

17 years into our marriage, Vicki’s repressed sexual abuse memories started surfacing.  Now things started making sense.

We figured out we couldn’t just take the standard marital/self-development advice but needed to work at the wedge in our relationship through the lens of a sexual abuse survivor.  

And that’s when we started making real progress.  We figured out basic things that we needed to do that would get the fastest shifts and create the most ease, enjoyment and intimacy in our relationship.

We can help you to figure out what is needed in your marriage to break free from the past and create your

Intimate Marriage!

What People Are Saying

About Working With Vicki & Tom

Vicki Dau has a huge compassionate heart, an open, welcoming presence, and she’s also grounded, stable, focused. She connected the dots to things I was gliding past. That was so helpful. It was only through her guidance that I could finally see into my blind spots and let them go. She would guide me back into my feelings, into my body when I’d start roaming around up in my head. And because of that, I unlocked the deepest vow I’d taken and absolutely never seen before… I had decided at a young age I was helpless; i.e. powerless, i.e. a victim. This was the lynchpin… the piece that released all these other false stories I’d built about who I was and who I could be. I was stunned to see that I’d buried that all my life.

Linda Kaun

I have known Vicki for many years. She is kind, considerate and extremely in tune. She is a woman of trust and empathy, who leads with a servant's heart. Her deep desire to help all realize a plan of shear goodness in life is the hallmark she lives by, truly. 

Vicki’s sessions are unique, as they have been created not just from her own learning and knowledge, but also experience. The process of talking through occurrences: past and present, has proven to be more than eye-opening for me. And learning the practice of EFT has been powerful and transforming.
By simply listening, Vicki has the extraordinary gift to target exactly what needs adjustment. Through our sessions, I have learned to examine my thought process and beliefs of what is true, and not. I am more aware of daily interaction, circumstances and goal achievement; And as a result, have the tools and resources to realize my greatest potential yet!

Gloria Lorusso

I LOVE working with Vicki Dau! I have been working in the alternative healing arts for nearly 25 years. I have been blessed to discover some pretty amazing tools to help my clients and myself over the course of these years. When I am stuck and need some help Vicki is one of my go-to people while I ramble off everything that's going on with me, she so skillfully holds the space and hones in on where we need to start and guides me to discovering the deeper issues/patterns that I was unable to get to on my own. It's amazing how quickly and gently she takes me from "I'm not sure what's going on", to "I had no idea that was the problem", to "Wow! I feel SO MUCH better and lighter and clearer". If you are thinking of working with Vicki, I would tell you to thank the person who gave you her name and sign up right away - why postpone feeling better another minute!

Karen Street

Because of my inner changes our marriage is now on the fast track to being extraordinary!!


I found and cleared decades old beliefs of self doubt, beliefs that I will never amount to anything, and thoughts that lack and no prosperity was my lot in life. Because of our work together, the business I began from scratch 3 years ago, is growing beyond my dreams which is allowing stronger family relationships.


I told Vicki the work I did with her has and will continue to transform my life forever. That’s not an exaggeration in any way.


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